From the Founder

We started If I Told You during our own unthinkable life moment. We were shocked to see people didn’t believe us when separating from a covert abuser. Instead of staying quiet, we chose to get louder and higher. Stories of narcissistic abuse are real and tragic.We're in the support groups. We wanted a way to connect people who’d experienced this with those who simply had no idea it existed. Because maybe if people hear more, they’d believe it and if they’d believe it, it opens the doors to bring answers justice and healing to those impacted sooner than later. We support ELA, survivors and supporters of individuals escaping, healing, and navigating aftermath of toxic relationships and hidden abuse.